林孔怀先生
新加坡飞跃社区服务机构首席执行官

林孔怀老师现任新加坡飞跃社区服务机构首席执行官，他拥有数十年的辅导经验，其专业背景涵盖社会工作、家庭治疗及心理学，致力于帮助社区成员建立稳固的家庭关系。林老师与妻子一同参与婚姻辅导项目，陪伴新婚夫妇成长，籍由分享自身知识和经验，帮助新婚者建立坚韧的婚姻关系。他也受邀担任新加坡“育儿与家庭事务咨询小组”及“家庭服务评审委员会”委员，为相关重要项目提供专业意见。

Mr. Aurther Ling
Chief Executive of Fei Yue Community Services

Aurther Ling serves as the Chief Executive of Fei Yue Community Services, where he brings decades of expertise and dedication to his role. With a background in social work, family therapy, and psychology, he is a passionate advocate for strengthening families. Arthur and his wife actively engage in marriage programs and mentor newlywed couples, sharing their knowledge and experience to help build resilient relationships. He also lends his expertise to key initiatives as a member of the Advisory Panel on Parenting and the Family Services Review Committee. Beyond his professional commitments, Arthur seeks to be a devoted husband and father of three. He maintains his energy and well-being through weekly indoor soccer and table tennis, balancing his active lifestyle with his family and career.

第一章 为婚姻负起百分百责任
第二章 他的感受比我的重要
第三章 为自己的需要负责
第四章 大事还是小事
第五章 了解比有理重要

第六章 心甘情愿
第七章 婚姻杀手
第八章 从要求变为请求
第九章 成为彼此的避风港
第十章 避免随意解读

第十一章 道歉三部曲
第十二章 两极的成长